Natural Consequences

Life is about challenges and overcoming them, don’t you agree?  From our first hours on the planet, we struggle to communicate our needs, we overcome challenges to learn to walk and run, and sometimes we fall.  Overcoming a challenge has …

When an Experience Outlasts a Toy

Recently, I overheard a family discussing their upcoming vacation. They were planning their trip to upper Michigan, where they would go, where they would sleep, interesting things they would see. The children were all school-aged and the parents were sharing …

Kiddos and Family Money: Do’s and Don’ts

After seasonal giving, hosting, and all the other expenses that come with kiddos out of school, there is a day of reckoning.  So many of us “pull-out-the-stops” where spending is concerned.  We want our kiddos to have whatever their heart …

Children Grieve Too…

Death comes to every family and children are just as much a part of it as are adults.  If we are fortunate, we have time to prepare, time to say goodbye, time to share, time.  But sometimes death comes suddenly, …

Behavior = Need

Behavior.  What can I say about preschoolers and their unpredictable behaviors?  A wise teacher told me, “Young children tell us what they’re feeling with their behaviors.”   Isn´t that true from the beginning of life? Babies sense distress – hunger, pain, …

Lessons from the Neighborhood

Lessons from the Neighborhood, by Mister Rogers If you are a parent today, chances are you grew up with Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood. I watched those episodes with my son and we would quote to each other, “Correct as usual, King …

Happy Talk

Happy talk! Let’s face it: parenting is STRESSFUL! We feel such pressure to nurture and encourage brilliant, successful, kind, loving children. We read articles, books, and blogs about how to honor their unique personality, support their interests and talents, and …

The Great Outdoors

What’s so great about the Great Outdoors? It is April and we are now officially in spring; time to be outdoors. As a culture, people in America have become housebound creatures. Most of us work indoors, schools have cut recess …

Dog Trainers Guide to Parenting

What I learned about Parenting from Training My Dogs. I am a child psychologist and play therapist, and for the past 15 years have had a canine assistant in my office.  I have trained them, with the help of some …